Shy is Relative

shy is relative:

to label someone as shy as though it were a fixed, immutable trait is misleading. people are variable. everyone has moments when they are stuck for words. likewise, there are times when they have a lot to say. compared to their most talkative, sometimes people are relatively shy.

it may be that with some people we find it difficult to talk. we do not feel we relate to some people. with others with whom we have a lot in common, we find it much easier to talk.

also, i suppose, in every relationship, one is relatively shyer than the other. usually someone is the dominant person in the relationship, who takes charge of the conversation. not always, but in many cases.

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For the Earth in Practice

for the earth in practice:

frame the argument for why we're here
you're there get the Cups for the litter
an Ashtray, loads of light picture that and
the czar of train, automobile and transport
helicopter that and we're away again
all in a Days Game

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Song for a Nerl

song for a nerl:

something to say and dance a whirl
the song begins and the music plays
what a time for all of us
all of us here
what a nerl i was but a woman tonight
here i am
JIA YOU! JIA YOU!
sing a song if you dare
say something
dance without a care
let's go the night away

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The Precepts of Triangularity

the precepts of triangularity:

YOU THE OBSERVER AND IT

two meet, the watcher sees and hears it. now everyone has their own opinion of what happened and their own thoughts about it. the truth of 3 points, much like a triangle of perspective.

NOT AIM FOR THE OBSERVER

the truth between yourselves, whether it meant it or not, between two people you need its opinion on what happened.

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Sociology: People and Their Function in Society

sociology: people and their function in society

there is a turn of phrase....
what is my role in society?
how did i get where i am?

how do i measure my success? by my own yard stick? what about my effect on others? indeed, how do other people view me?

the leaders show the way, whether they be investment bankers, masters of the universe, politicians, the representatives of the corners of society....

how easy was it? people are naturally interested in other people. application to detail, drive, motivation are all part of the recipe of success. was it luck?

to say we met, we joined, we formed a congress of minds is to have achieved something.

CLEARCHARGE